Welcome to the Forum Teena!!
Unfortunately until he wants to change there is nothing YOU can do, and it can be a very frustrating place looking in on someone else's addiction, intentions of help only go soo far, at the end of the day the addict must be willing to help themselves, or nothing will change.
My advice would be don't let your own life pass you by waiting on someone else to change, because what if they don't? . . . you have your own hopes, dreams and ambitions, go after those, and if the person changes great, and if they don't then you haven't put your own life on hold in the meantime.
You'll find loads of support here on SR!!
