2nd time!
I had written all this and then clicked on the wrong button and disappeared so doing from memory!!
For all those feeling a bit 'blase' - don't! I have done this so many times and it is wrong! Look to why you feel the need to be blase? And then look for the truth!
I have been a member since Super Bowl night 2014. Nope, not under this account .... drink made me forget original account.
Whatever the 'wine/beer-witch' tells you, ignore it. Question it. What is more important to you? Is it your child? If so, you need to SHOW it. Don't just say it and drink - SHOW it !!