What an inspiring post!! And congratulations MidnightBlue. The 'have a plan' point specifically jumped out at me. Even whilst sober I have found my emotions and life spiraling out of control at times, and I suspect that had/has a lot to do with my 'I'll figure it out somehow' attitude.
I need a daily plan. 7:15am - get up 7:30 - shower 8:00 - breakfast etc etc. I need to write a plan and stick regimentally to it. I need to build a structure, rather than the wishy washy life that I have now, and rid myself of the 'Meh, I'll do it later' attitude that I have.
You post has inspired me to be stricter with myself and get structure in my life. Thank you.