Hi, LPS.
Hmmm. Drove home drunk. Had to stop several times.
How is that your fault, exactly?
Honestly, as much as I dislike alcohol, if I were in your spot, I would have more trouble with his need to control every minute of my life than I would the alcohol consumption.
He is trying to guilt you into going.
He doesn’t want to work on the marriage.
He wants to know where you are and what you are doing.
Can’t do that if you are home and he isn’t.
I am not going to tell you, go or don’t go.
That’s up to you.
I will repeat, tho, what I said in an earlier post.
You are working hard to set boundaries and he is working hard to push them down.
Good luck and good thoughts.