Pajama.....Along with you, I also hope that he is able to commit himself to recovery and sobriety as his first priority......
And, I also am glad that you understand that it is his path to walk.....
I am going to give you this following link to our library of dozens and dozens or excellent articles on alcoholism and the effects on the loved ones....I hope you will read through them.....
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...c-reading.html (Classic Reading)
Keep in mind that early recovery is considered the first couple of years....
Jeep your eyes on actions and behavior ......not the words.....
Here is a specific article that is a good yard stick......
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...-reposted.html (10 Ways to Tell When an Addict or Alcoholic is Full of ****, reposted)