Imrs...I can tell that you are not educated about alcoholism, at all...(even if you think you are).....There is sooo much to know!
There will be others who will come along to post on this thread, but, in the meantime I am giving you the following link to our library of educational articles on alcoholism and the effects on the loved ones...
I hope that you will begin reading them.....
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...c-reading.html (Classic Reading)