Originally Posted by
theVman31 
Bim, I had to read that twice and I might have to read it a third time
I admit I can be slow after a long day !
Helping others inadvertently helps ourselves ?
Like by making people happy is a great way of being happy oneself ?
Not my point, but it may be me and my writing skills or lack thereof.
Just the opposite. It feels good to be connected to people, but it's easy to go overboard and let it become a pathology.
The bullet points are the progression of the unhealthy "helping."