Dontremember and Gottalife I tried AA . It wasn't for me . I won't go into it. Last time I went this particular meeting had to introduce themselves etc and I didn't want to speak I was a bit of a mess. I'm not knocking it but I didn't want to do the 12 steps and I was almost ridiculed. Also found it more depressing hearing the stories and seeing the suffering people relive their woes. Its just not for me.
You are correct in suggesting underlying issues though and it's something I am going to have to look at. Thanks folks