Originally Posted by
bobdrop 
OK. I will take responsibility. I will just accept that my wife doesn't care. Who knows what tomorrow will bring.
With decent/long term sobriety you'll understand that it does not matter if she cares. YOU care about you and that's why you no longer need to drink. You start to like yourself again. You earn respect from those that really know you drink too much/often(trust me..THEY KNOW). Go to an open discussion AA meeting and just listen to the others talk. It's quite amazing how similar we all are,no matter financial status,relationship status,ect.. You will hear 'your story' from multiple people. Try it. What can it hurt? It's free and only an hr of your time.