Geebus, Gilmer, that's deep. At least I think it is, I don't understand what you said so I'm guessing it is over my head.
I just don't talk to many people, saves me a lot of problems.
"A prudent man foresees trouble and hides himself, but the simple proceed and are punished." Prov 22:3
I have far less drama if I manage to say nothing. Of course, pretty easy to do since I'm not working and I live alone. When I was working, other people constantly annoyed me. I see no way around that.