I am 3 months AF, the longest since I was 16 now 53. I am at stage where I am comfortable not drinking in day to day life. However, I don't go to social situations since stopping and have not been on holiday (vacation).
The way I see it is that each situation represents stopping all over again. At some point I need to get back into social situations or go on holiday (vacation) and not drink. It will be strange and a bit uncomfortable but I think the reality of doing it will be easier. Need to create the habit of not drinking on holiday and enjoy them without it.