Originally Posted by
HoneyBeez 
I can concede to the presence of a power greater than myself, even if it is just the laws of the universe at large, but the praying and put matters into that powers hands, I struggle with relating to that.
this is me exactly. I like the SMART program which has online meetings if you can't get to the face-to-face ones, including some "Friend & Family" ones, which I presume are the equivalent of AlAnon. I'm still under the number of posts needed to post links, but it's easy enough to find on the SMART webpage