My husband behaves like this yet he stopped drinking 5 years ago.
I used to think it was the alcohol but it seems he may have mental health problems that have been made worse by his ignorance of such matters and continued abusive behaviour.
The behaviour you have noted is Domestic Abuse and education of the facts may scare you into realising that you cannot help him and in this situation that is deteriorating you need support to understand that the only thing you can do is protect yourself and build an escape.
Please, please listen to those who know, and save more heartache and grief in the future