Originally Posted by
Stacy0701 
I truly have never stopped taking care of me. I work full time, take care of our kids & house. I exercise, journal, spend time with family & friends. It is just sad that we live together & over this past year have started to become roommates. I went to a few Alanon meetings but it was a few years ago & I went to counseling but I really feel I am at a point of if I do not want to live with this & he does not want to change. It is probably best to separate.
Hi Stacy
A tough place to be - "roommates" is not a good long term solution. Glad to hear you are taking care of yourself (and the kids are a priority) Have you done the Al anon 12 step program? Maybe worth going back to Al anon. I agree that Rating together for the sake of the kids is not enough reason - you have a life ahead of you. take care