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Old 09-07-2017, 10:44 AM
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BAW81
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Welcome. I am also a 36 year old woman and I am currently in the process of divorcing my AH of 5 years (tomorrow) with a 20 month old.

I am so sorry for what you are experiencing. I hope you find comfort knowing you're not alone.

I do recommend that you if you are serious about leaving that you do consult an attorney alone, privately. Also, document everything! Keep a journal, take photos, videos, whatever you might need to help protect your children if(when) he fights for custody .

Staying married to an alcoholic is extremely hard and painful and divorcing an alcoholic can be even worse. Just remember to take care of yourself and those children, first and foremost. I listened to empty promises for a very long time wishing them to be what I wanted them to be. Also, remember, you're ONLY 36!

Whatever you decide to do, I wish you and your children all the best.
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