Thread: Am i to blame?
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Old 09-03-2017, 09:18 AM
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Usingthe12
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Originally Posted by Jezzi View Post
Could you just let her know you support her completely and that if she needs you you'll be there? Then let her be the one to reach out when/if she's ready. She needs time to focus on herself and her recovery.
I've done that. Constantly. Letters and greeting cards. I could not be more supportive and loving.I'm just scared. Maybe the alcohol tricked her into thinking she loved me. Maybe she stayed with me because my lack of knowing how to help her other than screaming and accusing enabled her to drink so she stayed. I don't know. All I know is She is not here and I am alone with my pain and I truly feel that hearing her voice and her telling me That she loves me would make me feel better. Is that crazy or what? Lol. I'm gonna be 47 and I'm carrying on like a high schooler. Pathetic!
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