Thread: Am i to blame?
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Old 09-03-2017, 09:09 AM
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Obladi
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No one is to blame for another person's decision to drink or drug. We may have had a hand in contributing to unhappiness in whatever form, but that doesn't make us to blame.

I echo bimini's suggestion to try out Al-anon if you haven't already. It's hard work because you are in recovery too. As an alcoholic in AA, I have learned much and benefited greatly from the support, understanding and guidance of my peers.
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