Hi , When I attendaed AA a few years back there was a couple in their middle 50s who seemed on the surface to be deoing great . I used to love each others share ,how honest and open they were . Ive never saw them for a while as I stopped going to AA so don't know how they are now .
I think it all depends on the couple ,how strong each is individually and i agree with the above that you need to concentrate to certain degree on yourself first .