Can two alcoholics get sober together?
I have been struggling with my own sobriety for some time now. I just recently went out for 4 days after almost two months sober. My fiance and I split and no longer live together (since two months ago) but we are still actively in a relationship. He is also an alcoholic but has only very recently come to terms with it. We've had some pretty bad and crazy stuff happen surrounding our alcoholism.
Everybody is pretty keen to give opinions on our situation, and it's hard to know who's advice to take.
What i'm wondering, if we are both actively working on our own programs and on our own recovery, can we still continue with our relationship?
Neither of us want to split up completely right now, but we understand the importance of working on ourselves first.
Can two alcoholics get sober together successfully ? If so, what will be the important things to do?