I extended the pool invite to say it's open for the holiday week-end to be kind. It's going to be a nice week-end and it's convenient to us to let neighbors use the pool this week-end. This is the response from one:
"Thanks for the invite...to tell you honestly it's very tough to keep my daughter away from your pool on the other days, once she has access to it... so it's best to keep the YMCA her only choice...just to avoid the meltdowns.."
Makes me even happier I made this decision. It should be when it is convenient for us not because their kids are having meltdowns.