I wouldn't go to a brewery in my first week of recovery, under any circumstance. It's a risk that is not worth taking. Your kids are better off missing out on some root beer if the trade off is a sober mom. I completely get that you don't want to have a fight with your husband, but his lack of support is concerning. He doesn't need to be your biggest cheerleader, but he should at least be willing to alter activities a tiny bit so as not to actively undermine your recovery.