Hi:
I really hope this is the last time that you allow this man to treat you like this. You have posted several times about him, several. The story is almost always the same, him calling you names and acting out.
I think that you should put yourself first and drop this man. Friends bring you positivity and don't call you lazy or stupid. I don't mean to blame you but eventually YOU are going to have to put your foot down and advocate for yourself. Why are you allowing this? What is this relationship bringing you other than grief? You don't owe him anything!
Stop this madness already!