Thread: Guidance needed to let go, where do I begin?
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Old 08-28-2017, 08:59 PM
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Bekindalways
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Originally Posted by TLC View Post
So I am staying focused on "what do I need today?", for my business, for my home, for myself. This idea of taking care of myself use to seem selfish and so easy to throw aside if someone wanted or needed something. Today this feels somehow comforting. Today is today and thats all I want to focus on. There is so much to learn and apply. So, my current focus is on detachment and what do I need to take care of myself.
^^^^^^ This!!

Good for you TLC. It took me a long time to learn that there was destructive selflessness and constructive selfishness.

Being codependent turns a lot of relationship concepts on their head.

Keep at it lady!
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