D122Y: You wrote " If someone was spinning my wife up and getting drunk in my kitchen I wouldn't like it either.
I beg to differ! No one was "getting drunk in my kitchen" and I don't know what is meant by "spinning my wife up"! All my guests , including members of my family, know of my alcoholism in the past. No one gets drunk in this house. The most that happens is somebody (not me!) having one or two glasses of wine. The only point is that i never get cravings any more after 29 years. I thought saying that to the SR folks might be helpful to some. My daughter in law upsets me but she hardly ever drinks. End of story. Guess I should not have said anything about such stuff on SR.
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