The other thing that really bothers me is that we have a 22 year old daughter together also and the girl he cheated on me with is 22 years old also... To me that's is so gross and nasty... So there is so many things on this... Yes more went on than just kissing... What I've seen just won't get out of my head... I'm really not sure how I feel and not sure if I can recover from it... Thanks Everybody