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Old 08-22-2017, 05:50 AM
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I suppose we tend to align ourselves with others who help us to rationalise the stupid-arse stuff we do. I did it with drinking - finding others who either drank with me or would fall for my pity-party rationalisations for drinking an tell me I was right and it wasn't my fault (Ohhhh poor Berry kinda thing).

I suppose your wife has found that friend who tells her what she wants to hear. It's a shame, but you know, even without that friend's input, if she's unwilling to think / talk about it that's where she is, and there's nothing you can do to change her as well you know.

Prayers for you and your wife Bill. Sounds like you're on a rocky and uphill part of your path at the moment. Remember though - you are not alone, no matter how much it might feel that way at times.

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