Originally Posted by
Lava256 
Matt, I really feel for you. Have you tried Al-anon?
Do you drink as well? If so, you need to concentrate on your recovery as much (or even more than) as you are on getting back together with her.
Try hard to concentrate on yourself now.
I do not drink. I will be attending an al anon meeting this Wednesday. I also see a private shrink. It really hurts that I am so out of the loop when it comes to helping her. I want her to succeed. I will do whatever it takes to help her stay sober. I just want her back.