My ex wife is currently in rehab. We were divorced 3 years ago. Her alcoholism and substance abuse to me was the main reason. In Oct. 2015 we began dating again. She tried to hide her continued alcohol use and subsequently last January we split up again. However, we still care very much for each other and it's killing me that we are not together as a couple. I want an opportunity to have her back when she is sober so we can experience that incredible love we had for each other in the beginning. Am i being selfish? Will she meet someone in rehab and I'll lose her? I'm so scared.