I don't know about waiting a year or two, but I'm not actively looking either.
If I met someone, I'd go out for coffee and talk, and see where it leads. I've met a few guys in AA that I'm attracted to, but haven't approached them.
I'm not looking for casual sex. Did that for years. I want someone to spend national holidays with. Companionship. Shared interests. Sexual compatibility and attraction can be developed and grow over time.