Originally Posted by
sugarbear1 If you really think he has a problem, then maybe you should start attending some Al-Anon meetings and start to heal, then maybe he'll decide to get help for himself, too!
Sorry - not sure if this is getting to you Polly. I think the bears advice here is really good. It will help put hings in perspective and you can work out from there together and with help. I was in a really good relationship but unfortunately didn't go this - in hindsight, it would have been a good idea. As all our saying, look after yourself.