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Old 08-19-2017, 04:44 AM
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maia1234
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O,
This is all part of the healing process. Embrace that you loved this man, and there is nothing wrong with that. Some people will never truly know what love is all about, your were lucky, even though it hurts.

It took me about a year and a half, post divorce, to go through 34 years of pix and send them to him. Anything with me in it, I did not send. Just him and his family or his kids. I then mourned my loss and put them away, again. The majority of my pix, axh had a drink in his hand or I knew he was off getting stoned at every party or event I was at, I could see it in his face.

I didnt get rid of my pix, just tucked them away. I also did not delete the family pix on fb. He was my past, and to me deleting them would mean to my kids that our family never existed. We were a famiy, not always healthy, but we were once a family.

Put the stuff away, don't obsess over them, and come back and visit them in 6 months when you have more time under your belt. You will be ok, in time!! Hugs!!
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