Ophilia
I have all of my photos. Some are printed & framed. Countless others are digital.
The non-digital photos I put away several weeks ago in a storage container. That container also holds various other mementos of her. Other things she gave me along the way I still have out.
I read somewhere might have been on SR someone saying burn it all - get rid of it. I am not doing that. I cant look at the pictures. My pictures are mostly from happy times - but unlike you, not all of mine are pleasant reminders. Many are not.
For me, some of the things she gave me are still out. I see them but don't dwell for more than a few seconds on them. Pictures both good & bad - I cannot look at any of it now. She is part of me - she is part of my life. There may come a day sometime in the future when I will want to look back but I am not sure.
I know my limits - I stay away from the pictures.
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