i'm going to vote for #2.
#1 just isn't true and #3 isn't going to happen till #2 is accepted.
what's missing is" bad enough" at the end of the sentence. I've wanted to stop thousands of times due to horrific Saturday and sunday morning hangovers as well as other things. i never stopped because i didn't want to.........bad enough. i finally threw in the towel when i got what I've heard described as the" gift of desperation". now i'm working on #3.