Hi Jay
there are many great threads here about moderation vs abstinence.
This is one of them - read it right through to the end.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-drinking.html
Bottom line is people are gonna do what they're gonna do, no matter what I say, so I'll pass on the discussion.
I have no experience with successful moderation or 'harm reduction'.
If you want to discuss successful abstinence based approaches, that I have some experience with
Look me up anytime
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