Exactly. This may not be true but the vibe that he's giving off makes it pretty clear to me that nothing's changed. He requested that l give him his bank card information because he wanted to order something. Not once did he ask about his daughter & myself or how are we doing. His only concern was, "what are you spending my money on?" I couldn't believe it. After that l blocked his number & it will stay blocked even when he comes out..
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atalose 
That's because nothing has changed except he's been substance free for 3 weeks, and that might not even be true. If a cell phone was able to be sneaked in I'm sure drugs/booze could be to.
Someone who is serious about getting clean/sober and being honest doesn't sneak a cell phone into a rehab .
I can't blame you for being anxious, as you are witnessing nothing has changed.