Invited out for drinks by coworkers - I knew this was coming
I have 35 days, and my coworker invited me out for drinks with the group at work. I declined and they said, ok well definitely next time I have to come.
How do you guys get around this?
a) I don't want them to think I'm not a team player
b) Can I keep saying no? It will look really bad
c) Could I go and just not drink? That would be super awkward, since it is specifically an event to order and consume alcohol
Working in the finance industry, I find that most outside activities are centered around alcohol and maybe I have to change careers. I know alcohol is EVERYWHERE, but maybe I should switch into a wellness field where meetings and events are more health-conscious.
Any advice is appreciated!