Hi, Andagain.
As a grateful Al-Anon member and one who relied on AA meetings a lot in early sobriety, I can tell you that I will take an Al-Anon meeting over AA every time!
I looked around a lot before I found an AA meeting that fit.
Keep going to different meetings. Each meeting has its own vibe.
Though I don't attend AA anmore, it really helped me when I got sober.
Good luck.