Hi, nez not sure i get what you mean sorry, for me everytime i am in the wrong i have said sorry and meant it, my wreckage as you say has been cleared, apart from my immediate family and myself i have hurt no one, no one could be more sorry and taken action and responsibiltie than me, others that have hurt me i have forgiven NOT for them but for me, the person in question knows how much i love them and them me, but a lot has gone on we have wished each other a happy life future etc, my opinion and mine only, sometimes by going back messes up the future