Update... the neighbors have dodged me. **Sigh** I feel like the bad guy, but either they feel uncomfortable and maybe don't like me anymore, or I continue to feel uncomfortable at my own home and build more resentments. So maybe this is the way it's supposed to go down. And they are making it a point to be gone every week-end and this is the first time they got someone else to take care of their cat. Neighbor drama!! Sad thing is I really like them. So I will continue to be nice when I see them in passing. It is what it is... I extended the pool invite a week and a half ago but they all declined. Guess I'm not a cool kid anymore. I care but I don't... but I do... hmmm... moving along...