Old 08-05-2017, 01:30 PM
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Chilledice
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Originally Posted by tomsteve View Post
i used to have a serious problem with what others' thought of me- to the point that when i went to the store, i would look at the ground. i was certain people were lookin at me and thinkin,'theres that f-up."

when brought up to my sponsor, he suggested i got to walmart, sit down somewhere and people watch. do it for at least 10 minutes.
so i did. sat at the end of an isle in the shoe dept.
sat there watchin everyone walkin by and shopping.
then went to my sponsors.
he asked,"howd it go?"
"i was able to do it and not puke."
'how many people did you see?"
" probably 50-75."
"and how many did you make eye contact with?"
" i think about 5?"
"thats how important you are to other people."
HUH!!
an egomaniac with an inferiority complex.
All in the mind

I think a lot of us have it at some point in our lives to varying degrees and it sux.
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