how about you worry less about them and what they are doing or not doing, saying or not saying, and focus on what YOU want and what YOU need. without filtering it thru what others might think or want or feel?
it's august - the winter holidays are MONTHS away. there is no need to fret and worry over where to go and what to do for a DAY in November and another DAY in December NOW. it's summer, stay in it, enjoy it!!!