Sad story, last year this time I moved out of my BF's house. I told everyone it was his drinking whisky, when in reality it was that and my drinking beer, which only increased since I could drink all I wanted since I was on my own. We remained friends until 2 weeks ago when we were both drunk and he ended up throwing some remaining stuff of mine outside and busted them up. 2 drunks don't work. I since then thought about that situation and all the bad that I have went through and bestowed on others because of drinking. That was why I came here. Your wife has her reasons. You may not see it. Obviously something bothers her about you drinking. Does she tell you why it bothers her?