if we are truly committed to sobriety, then we make the DECISION to stop drinking ONCE.....and then recommit to the same decision over and over. yes it is best early on to not intentionally put ourselves in situations regarding alcohol - wine testing, wedding receptions, new years eve bash - however we are ALWAYS armed to the teeth with that ONE decision, that ONE choice. to NOT drink, ever, NO MATTER WHAT.
that choice isn't different on Monday then it is on Wednesday. Or in Alaska or Argentina. Not at brunch or after work. it is exactly and precisely the same, unchanged, regardless.