Hi Steely, great to see you! Yep still broke! I thnk part of my relapse was feeling like I'll never get anywhere, get out of debt, I'll never get to that point where I can get healthcare again. And when I stop caring and feel destitute, well, there's my relapse. Just keep getting back on the horse. Year in year out.
Kenton, I don't know if I should stir the pot, but I don't think you have to go to that wedding at all! I think you could arrange some kind of conflict and go and take care of yourself on a very tough day, and by having your own back you might feel much better. Maybe you can even find a partner in social crime and go somewhere together! Just an idea. This sounds like a disaster and very uncomfortable.