hi sky. Congrats on 11 months that is fantastic.
I can relate - I had 3.5 years and started again. I actually find it hard to believe sometimes but it's the truth. It just crept up on me and I allowed it in.
I'm back now and this is the best place for me. I'm just taking it slowly and steadily each day and doing my best to avoid drama.
obviously some things can't be avoided and I'm sorry about your father. Much of external drama in my life or surrounding others I distance myself from in order to protect myself.
It happened to me because I took my eye off the ball, stopped focusing on my sobriety, took it for granted maybe. I also just wanted a drink so I had 1. I know I can't drink and don't know why I thought it would be any different after a few years off
You're back here which is the most important thing