(((Jup)))
seems we get what we can handle
have faith in yourself, have faith in the process
pray for more faith
i like best's reply, set boundaries for yourself
how your sister handles your boundaries is her stuff not yours. Sorry to hear about your dad, i'll definitely say some prayers for him , you and your family.
What ever happens taking a drink will only add to your stress. you've come this far, congrats!!
Remember HALT
taking care of yourself will better able you to care for others, bottom line.
anything you put before recovery, sobriety will be lost
outside support will help i'm sure, coucilling and errand stuff. Do what you gotta do
moment by moment Daniel
stay strong
hugs, Wendy