congrats cl. I am 18m. DO STUFF! Write a ;list of every thing you have always wanted to do- and do it. Go to meetings. Join the local library- they do more than books. Check out the local community centre. Look at stuff that interests you- hiking, art, writing, church, some swear to how wnriching volunteer work is, join a book club, coffee club. Use your phone to take artistic pictures. Do a short cooking class. You know- STUFF.