Originally Posted by
Tiffanylee75 
I've stopped him so many times getting a last drink that I know he didn't need and he'd get mad at me. .... I feel for him but I'm also a tough love kinda person. His family is clueless it's an issue.
To my understanding, tough love isn't continually stopping someone from that last drink (which is never the last drink) or getting on them about their drinking. In my understanding, that is codependent thinking.