What's sad is the alcoholic is angry, and then the spouse (me) gets angry because the A is being an A, and being angry. Not good at all. My AW got trashed at our son's 4th b-day party. Luckily, he was so wound up and distracted with everything going on and all the people around, he didn't even realize how bad she was.
I'm sorry, Soap, that you have to deal with this. I hope you can find a school counselor to talk to, or Alateen, or something. Everyone's home should be their safe place, and it's not that way for you.
COD