Originally Posted by
Bob4x4 
you are free, disconnect your social media accounts from her / block etc... be thankful you got free without losing everything, or getting physically hurt, or having her put you in jail for some kind of crazy accusations. She has proven she will turn on you in a blink for no apparent reason, dude you could end up in jail, run, block, be thankful if you can.
Thanks man, I will get there where I can have authentic gratitude for this experience. I had four mostly very happy years of loving someone and being loved so I can't regret that part but I know that there is nothing more I could have done to make this last and perhaps it was a blessing to be saved from what the future could have held for me had we stayed together. I blocked her from everything and stopped stalking her social media. I will heal from this whatever it takes. Thank you!